Trigger Warning: Graphic Descriptions of Self Harm I’d like to apologize in advance for harshing on your holiday groove because this is not a happy post. I debated for quite some time about even sharing this post, and I’ve looked at it a number of times and considered scrapping the whole fucking thing. My partners have encouraged me to post it, as they feel (and so do I) that the topic is not something that is discussed enough, and ought to be given more attention. I’m posting this over the holidays because for me, the holidays are often marked with anxiety, family arguments, stress, andRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! It is holiday review time! I’m going to compile 4 reviews of 4 new (or new to me!) products that you might love! Welcome to day 4: the We-Vibe Tango Pleasure Mate Collection, the best gift for your best friend! I am posting early so you can scroll down to the end to enter my MASSIVE Holiday Giveaway! I heard about We-Vibe releasing a toy collection to go with their recently upgraded line of toys, and I was first in line. I got to hold the little beasties at Catalyst Con West andRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! It is holiday review time! I’m going to compile 4 reviews of 4 new (or new to me!) products that you might love! Welcome to day 3: The Pocket Dungeon, for the sexplorer* in your life! *That was really bad. I’m sorry. Please forgive me for my punning.   If I could have one thing, It would be a small sized bag of holding that could easily store and organize all of my sex toys and not be super heavy. I currently use a super sweet toolbag with a billion pockets, and IRead More →

I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don’t like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and images. I was going to continue my holiday reviews, but I’m actually so pissed off that I’m skipping the review tonight y’all. I’ll save it for the new year. HARRUMPH. Remember how I spent THREE DAYS talking about what it’s like being a woman on the internet? No? Check here, here, and here. Go ahead, I’ll wait. Now that you’re caught up on how fucking tedious it is to existRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! It is holiday review time! I’m going to compile 4 reviews of 4 new (or new to me!) products that you might love! Welcome to day 2: Bandelettes, for the lingerie lover in your life! I have a confession to make. I am absolutely obsessed with lace. I love the way the right lace feels under my fingers. I adore the way my skin peeks through a black or a white lace. I find it to be super sexy on me and I feel like skin through lace is just so incredibly erotic.Read More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! It is holiday review time! I’m going to compile 4 reviews of 4 new (or new to me!) products that you might love! Kicking off day 1, is the Penthouse Variations on Oral Sex for your erotica fiends.  As I’ve mentioned before I’m pretty jaded when it comes to erotica. I’m super picky, and not much gets me off. So much of the time, about halfway through whatever erotica book I’m reading, I either give up, read it for enjoyment, or resort to being snarky. I could have a conversation on how sexism in erotica isRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! So… Foria. We heard a lot about it here for a few weeks, and I had been chomping at the freaking bit to try this stuff. It’s no secret that I’m very pro-legalization of medical and recreational marijuana, and hearing about a THC lubricant made my heart all atwitter! I am serious, I was completely stoked to be able to try a sample of this awesome, awesome stuff. So once I received a sample, I got into the good stuff. Foria is basically two ingredients: coconut oil and THC oil. I’veRead More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Welcome to the second portion of my four part discussion on Bad Poly. Today, we’re going to talk about something which many people find to be one of the “stranger” parts of poly. The idea of compersion. As with before, let me lay down some terms for you! Compersion: Often considered the opposite of jealousy, compersion is the positive feelings that you experience when your partner is investing in a relationship with someone else. Metamour: Your partner’s partner. Envy: When you want what someone else has. Jealousy: When you’re worried someone is trying to take what you have.Read More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! I was so, So, SO excited to get a set of the BONDaids to review. I’ve seen them everywhere, they’re super luscious, and I was desperate for them. So I got them in the mail and received two things. The first was the BONDaids handcuffs, the second were the Double Cuff Restraints. I have to say, they are awesome. Super luscious, really luxurious, so soft. Looking at them it becomes the question of “how the hell do these work?”. The video for how the cuffs work is below. Attaching the BONDaids DoubleRead More →