Hello darlings! This is NOT an April Fool’s post. Because I fucking HATE April Fool’s day, because I’m super gullible (I’m looking at you Fun Factory Orgasmia *heartbreak*). This post does have a giveaway, and a quick update about where I’m at! In case you missed it, I busted my butt at Catalyst Con East! I had such an amazing time, and I cannot wait until the next con! Check out a photo from my panel with the flawless Dirty Lola, the divine Andrea Renae, and the sensational Dylan Thomas. While I was out, I heard word that one of my FAVORITE sex toy companies (Crave) was releasingRead More →

So I’m not sure if you remember waaaaay back in February when I posted this picture? View this post on Instagram #behindthescenes of my video shoot with @atouchofflavor!! A post shared by Rebecca Hiles (@thefriskyfairy) on Feb 10, 2015 at 4:57am PST   Well I was lucky enough to shoot a video course for the wonderful Touch of Flavor! A Touch of Flavor is a great sex ed resource that brings videos and other events to life. They’ve been featured all over the media and are just a great group to work with! From their website: Everyone needs a Touch of Flavor in their lives. We’reRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews!   So in case you’ve not been paying attention I’ve been spending a whole lot of time this month with my Marshmallow in Savannah Georgia! We got to see the Saint Patrick’s day Parade, which evidently is a Big. FUCKING. Deal here in Savannah. It’s a little weird for me. Things were fun, everyone is super nice, but I also watched a bunch of people in lipstick randomly run up and kiss military members on the cheeks, which made me feel a bit uncomfortable in terms of the fact that bodiesRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! So in case you aren’t poly, and don’t flip your shit over new poly books, recently, a book called More Than Two released, and my poly friends would not shut up about it. I am always excited about new poly books, because frankly, we could really use more (any) representation in media. I knew, after listening to them that I would have to do whatever I could to reviewing this damn book. This. Damn. Perfect. Book. So I contacted Franklin (who I have had a writer’s crush on for years becauseRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! This is to serve as a Content Notice and/or a Notice about NSFW language and images. Hey lovelies! Sorry that it’s been so long since I’ve posted a review! I am having some pretty intense personal things happening here, but I’ve got so many good things coming! If you’re interested in picking up some sexy Frisky Fairy Swag, Click here! If you’re a poly person who has a Coming Out story to share, click here and submit to be a part (anonymously if needed) of the book I’m co-writing with Tamara Pincus! NowRead More →

  People call me a social justice warrior like this isn’t a fucking medal of honor. Like fighting for someone’s rights, for justice and equality isn’t a thing of pride. Like I’m not a fucking Social Justice Warrior Fairy? Well, fuck that. I am proud to be a Social Justice Warrior. So proud in face, that The Frisky Fairy is immortalized in a mascot: Designed by the incredible Jayne Jezebelle of Magical Tea Time on Etsy, The Frisky Social Justice Warrior is wielding her laptop of truth and her dildo of justice. If you’re digging this image, and you want to support me, head toRead More →

I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don’t like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a content notice and a notice about NSFW language and images. Poly Living Philadelphia! This weekend (if you’ve been following me on Twitter), you may have noticed that I was at Poly Living Philadelphia. PLP is a reasonably small con hosted by Loving More, a non-profit that focuses on poly activism and relationship choice. There were a number of amazing things to come out of the weekend. I shared some pretty spectacular kisses. I met some new friends, and some friends I hadRead More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments.   When I started this journey it was very hard for me to understand what I was worth. After all, there’s no real site that shares what Sex Educators make. It’s not like I can pop over to Glassdoor to type in my qualifications, and have it spit out how much I should charge someone to recommend the best sex toy, or to help them with their dating profiles. Many educators (myself included), prefer to be contacted for their rates, for a variety of reasons. For me, it’s mostly vanity in that the contact validatesRead More →

I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don’t like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and/or images I know, you’re all probably tired of hearing about Fifty Shades of Grey. EVERYONE is talking about it, and frankly, it’s exhausting. I’m tired of hearing about Fifty Shades of Grey (henceforth FSOG), but I’m also tired of having to re-explain my points. More than anything though, I’m tired of seeing industry professionals defend this book. Here are some things that I feel about this book: The argument thatRead More →

Valentine’s day is coming and for some of us that means we get to snuggle up closer to our partners, for others, it means we get to flirt with someone new or treat ourselves. Regardless of what your plans are for romance or sex on Valentine’s Day, here are some stunning options for how to treat yourself or a partner to some excellent care. I’ve curated this list of items you haven’t seen before, but don’t worry, full reviews are COMING SOON. Make sure you pick up some of these stunners at some of my favorite shops! So have a happy Valentine’s day, and I’ll see youRead More →