The Game Changer AKA I Hate Franklin Veaux


I hate Franklin Veaux. Now, now I know that people are going to bristle at that, but bear with me here. The co-author of More Than Two: A practical guide to ethical polyamory, a book I absolutely adored, (and highly recommend to those who are new to poly) is a jerk. You...

Ten Reasons Why Polyamory Sucks


Polyamory can be wonderful, but it can also suck so hard. If your partners are awesome, sometimes this can get sorted easily, but it can definitely be tedious. These are my top ten reasons why polyamory sucks. 1.) There is never a bed big enough for everyone, or a cuddle...

Your Willful Ignorance is Killing People


EDIT: I will no longer be replying to comments. Provided they are not death threats, rape threats, or threats against me or mine I will still approve them through. However, I have better things to do. Like my partners. Xoxo   You know... I've got a pretty solid soapbox here....

Let’s Get Kinky, As Kinky as You Wanna Be


So before I get started in on my review today, I want to send a brief mention to Atlanta Poly Weekend. The weekend was such a wonderful experience in terms of meeting people, and I was so thrilled to have seen so many people in my panels! Thank you so much...

The Fuze Ella, AKA: What the Hell Do I Do With This?


You didn't think I'd forget that May is Masturbation Month did you? I may be at Playa Del Fuego, but I still remembered. It is very rare for me that I come across a sex toy that I am confused about.  Usually I'm pretty good about identifying exactly what a...

I’m Not Crunchy Granola Dammit!


  **A quick note: I will be out of town at Playa Del Fuego from May 21-May 27th (I'm taking a couple days of recovery time). If you can't reach me, that's why!** I'm a person who prefers a hotel room to a campground. I prefer swimming pools to murky...

No, Seriously, Tell Me I’m Racist


Amid the coverage of the #baltimoreuprising, I had a really strange thing happen to me. I spent a lot of my time screaming at talking to white people when the news of the riots broke. Much of my conversation was spent defending the rioters, and their reaction to the consistent systemic...

April Showers, Bring May Masturbation Part 2!


Yeah, okay so it doesn't rhyme. Whatever. This April I want to talk about some of my Favorites for squirting. I think that squirting doesn't get talked about enough, and with all the BULLSHIT CONTROVERSY (seriously though, click here for why this is bullshit) I wanted to post up some of my...
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