So thanks to all of you, I’ve reached 300 followers on Twitter! I’m really excited about this, so I’m giving away two awesome things to one lucky winner! I’m giving away a copy of Dr. Sonia Borgs Oral Sex You’ll Never Forget! I reviewed this book in February, and now I’m giving one away to you!   I’m also giving away one of the amazing überlube Good-To-Go Traveler pack! I reviewed überlube earlier in July and I am OBSESSED. I want you to obsess with me, so I’m going to share it with you!   Follow the instructions below! a Rafflecopter giveawayRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! I have had The Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft for so incredibly long, and I have been trying to find a way to review it best. So when I finally got my hands on some leather, I was so excited, because I could finally try to DIY some BDSM gear! There is actually only one thing I don’t like about this book, and that is the fact that I wish there was more to craft. Seriously. I’m not even joking. I absolutely love this book so incredibly much. First off, there is anRead More →

I had been openly poly with my two partners Jon and Kai for almost three years when I met James* in September of 2012. He was handsome, funny, charming, and intelligent. Did I mention charming? I felt so incredibly lucky to have met such a handsome guy on my first real venture into polyamorous dating, and I was enjoying every minute of new relationship energy. In December, after meeting James, I was introduced to Lina*, another girl he was seeing. I spent the next weekend with her, and we swiftly became good friends. The three of us spent time enjoying each other whenever we hadRead More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Join me at Sexploratorium Thursday, July 24th at 7pm for Sex and Cancer! Get your tickets here! Cancer is a disease that affects millions of Americans, with more diagnosed cases each year. Approximately 54% of cases in the top ten cancers are under the age of 70, and yet, there is very little discussion in doctors offices about how cancer will affect your sex life. There’s little talk about how medications will change your body and your libido-beyond the discussion of fertility after treatment. A cancer diagnosis can often make you feel less human. With all the tests,Read More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews!  So in the interest of keeping things balanced, I wanted to make sure that I included some other lubricant options for those who are allergic to silicone, use silicone toys, or simply don’t like the feeling of silicone. I have found another option! Southern Butter has a line of lubricants that are rather interesting. I received a sample from them to try The first lubricant was called Bliss On Water Based Lubricant. It’s a water based lubricant and this particular “flavor” is peppermint & ginseng. I tasted it, and it did not tasteRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! I am so excited to review überlube for you! This lube is a silicone lubricant that is crafted in Chicago. I would say this is the closest to “artisanal” lubricant as one could get. When I spoke with Stephen about reviewing for überlube, he described the company as the microbrewery of lube. I’m inclined to agree, as überlube is a little company with a lot of passion for their products. I received my incredibly generous überlube swag pack in the mail and immediately fell in love. My first impression of their product is incredibly positive. TheirRead More →

African-American man smoking a pipe with a critical quote about Hobby Lobby

This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. I was intending on writing a lovely post to extol the virtues of my new favorite lube, however, I came home from my vacation to this shit. This post is going to be about the SCOTUS decision in Burwell v. Hobby Lobby Stores, Inc. Now, the overall takeaway for this is that Hobby Lobby WILL COVER all of the following forms of birth control: Male condoms Female condoms Diaphragms with spermicide Sponges with spermicide Cervical caps with spermicide Spermicide alone Birth-control pills with estrogen and progestin (“Combined Pill) Birth-control pills with progestinRead More →

This is to serve as both a content notice and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. Every single year there is at least one blog post that goes viral that discusses the behaviors of young women during the warmer months. Most of the time those blogs discuss the ways that women are destroying the men of the world and luring them into sin and hellfire by posting a sultry picture of themselves in a bikini, or a sexy summer pic on instagram where they’re braless and comfortable. Today, I’m here to bitch about them. This is such bullshit. This is the bullshit that people areRead More →

Hey everyone! I’m on Vacation June 19-30 2014, which means no posts until July 1st! If you’re curious, I’m going to be at an event through Dagorhir called Ragnarok Take a look at where I’m staying for a week! See You Soon! -The Frisky FairyRead More →