Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. I frequently get contacted by people who wonder whether they are polyamorous or not. They ask whether they could even give non-monogamy a shot. Unfortunately there is no real quiz you can take to find out if polyamory is right for you, however some of your current behaviors and beliefs can help you decide whether or not non-monogamy is worth exploring. Are you comfortable with the idea that there is no normal? One of the coolest, and also hardest, parts of polyamory for me personally was the idea that there is no normal. There are so manyRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! Been a while folks! I’ve got so much big news coming in the next few weeks that I’m about to pop, but I’ll keep it a secret just a little while longer and torment you all 😀  This week I’m reviewing The Oral Sex Position Guide by Emily Dubberley. I’ve read some of Emily’s work before in Field Guide To F*cking and I was really excited to see more. Unfortunately, I’ve had some feelings about Quiver publishing’s aesthetic choices in the past and this book is no exception. I’m putting this out intoRead More →

What happens when you take a ton of sex educators from around the country (and then some), and put them in a hotel in DC for three days to talk about what they do? Catalyst Con. Obviously. Catalyst Con is a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. It is about reaching out and stimulating those who attend to create those important conversations in their own communities, changing how we as a society talk and treat sexuality.  It is about stimulating the activist that is within all of us and sparking transformation in the way our friends, neighbors, children and even politicians discuss one ofRead More →

Book cover, "Peep Show: Erotic Tales of Voyeurs and Exhibitionists", showing a dimly lit pair of women's legs dangling a high heel"

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! So this week I am at Catalyst Con in the wonderful Arlington, VA! It’s so much fun and I’m having the time of my life. Make sure you keep your eyes peeled for when I talk about my experience at Catalyst! You can always follow me on Twitter or Facebook and get the experience as it’s happening! Between my busy schedule and balancing my relationships, sometimes I need to come up with creative ways to read my books for reviews. This often means that I’m reading some very sexy books in someRead More →

Book cover, "Oral Sex You'll Never Forget: Toe-Curling Techniques & Positions for Him and Her", showing a pair of women's legs in high heels from the knees down.

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! I’m back! Sorry about the disappearing act friends, I had some technical issues to sort out. Now that they’re good, I’m back to reviewing! Yay! This week I’m reviewing Oral Sex You’ll Never Forget written by Sonia Borg. I have definitely had the pleasure of reading through this book before, and I have used it when writing a few of my workshops. Unfortunately, I wanted this book to be different than others in the Oral Sex…Never Forget series and I was disappointed. This review will contain some profanity and some NSFWRead More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Today I want to talk about sex negativity, sex positivity and what it means for this blog. I would like to start by defining both of these terms: Sex Positive (As explained by Wikipedia): “an attitude towards human sexuality that regards all consensual sexual activities as fundamentally healthy and pleasurable, and encourages sexual pleasure and experimentation. The sex-positive movement is a social and philosophical movement that advocates these attitudes. The sex-positive movement advocates sex education and safer sex as part of its campaign.” Sex Negative (As explained by Jillian Horowitz): ” Being sex-negative means acknowledging that sex, and kink,Read More →

A book cover, "Best Bondage Erotica 2014", showing a woman in high heels with her back turned and wrists tied.

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! I was lucky enough to be able to review Best Bondage Erotica 2014 for Rachel Kramer Bussel-who is quite possibly one of my favorite erotica authors and editors. I have been in love with her books for ages, and I was so excited to have a copy of her newest bondage anthology. I had originally wanted to post this review next Friday, but reading through it made me realize that this would make a wonderful, sexy Christmas present. I got the book in the mail on on Monday afternoon, and after takingRead More →