The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! It is holiday review time! I’m going to compile 4 reviews of 4 new (or new to me!) products that you might love! Welcome to day 2: Bandelettes, for the lingerie lover in your life! I have a confession to make. I am absolutely obsessed with lace. I love the way the right lace feels under my fingers. I adore the way my skin peeks through a black or a white lace. I find it to be super sexy on me and I feel like skin through lace is just so incredibly erotic.Read More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! It is holiday review time! I’m going to compile 4 reviews of 4 new (or new to me!) products that you might love! Kicking off day 1, is the Penthouse Variations on Oral Sex for your erotica fiends.  As I’ve mentioned before I’m pretty jaded when it comes to erotica. I’m super picky, and not much gets me off. So much of the time, about halfway through whatever erotica book I’m reading, I either give up, read it for enjoyment, or resort to being snarky. I could have a conversation on how sexism in erotica isRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! So… Foria. We heard a lot about it here for a few weeks, and I had been chomping at the freaking bit to try this stuff. It’s no secret that I’m very pro-legalization of medical and recreational marijuana, and hearing about a THC lubricant made my heart all atwitter! I am serious, I was completely stoked to be able to try a sample of this awesome, awesome stuff. So once I received a sample, I got into the good stuff. Foria is basically two ingredients: coconut oil and THC oil. I’veRead More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Welcome to the second portion of my four part discussion on Bad Poly. Today, we’re going to talk about something which many people find to be one of the “stranger” parts of poly. The idea of compersion. As with before, let me lay down some terms for you! Compersion: Often considered the opposite of jealousy, compersion is the positive feelings that you experience when your partner is investing in a relationship with someone else. Metamour: Your partner’s partner. Envy: When you want what someone else has. Jealousy: When you’re worried someone is trying to take what you have.Read More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Welcome to my four part discussion on Bad Poly. Today, we’re going to talk about a really central theme to polyamory: Jealousy. Before we dig into this, let me lay down some definitions that we will be chatting about: Envy: When you want what someone else has. Jealousy: When you’re worried someone is trying to take what you have. NRE: New Relationship Energy- The excitement that exists when a relationship is new. Can last 3 months-2 years and beyond, and is individual to each relationship. There is a consistent theme when I am discussing polyamory around monogamous folk.Read More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! NSFW images ahead…. you have been warned. So I had been very excited to try the Oral Sex Deck, partly because I love the idea of a deck of cards that can be use for trying new things, and partly because I wanted to make a collage from them… That being said, I really don’t find much use for them either way. That sounds harsh, I know but I found a couple really great things about them, and then a bunch of really not so great ones. Let’s start with the good!Read More →

I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don’t like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and images. For the first part of this three part series, click here. We hear a lot about misogyny on the internet. I can literally give you post after post about misogyny on the internet. I can show an entire community that believes that women should not be allowed to “assert superiority and control over men”. Sorry ladies, these lovely gentlemen want you to live in a world where masculinity is kingRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews!   It has taken me far too long to get around to reviewing this book, and I am worse for it. I received an Advanced copy from Cleis Press to review around Valentine’s Day and simply never got to it. It was sitting, gathering dust on my desk until I brushed it off to flip through it a few days ago. I haven’t put it down. First things first, this book is amazing regardless of your relationship or sexual orientation. I found it to have a ton of information for couples.Read More →

I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don’t like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. What happens when you mess up? Is an apology enough? Can you make a mistake and recover from it? As a feminist, a sex educator, and someone who basically lives their life on the internet and in a public forum, I am often overcome with anxiety about these questions. In fact, if there is anything about what I do that is most exhausting, it is the fact that I amRead More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Hello friends! This week I’m discussing a topic that is incredibly close to my heart. This companion to my post So You Think You May Be Poly… has been requested from me multiple times for the friends and family of poly people, to explain the basics of polyamory. This is not a comprehensive guide. In fact, consider this a Part I. First things first, what is Polyamory? If you are hearing about this for the first time, the concept of poly may be bringing up images of religious men with many wives, or crazy sex partiesRead More →