I know I said I’d be back on the 8th, but I JUST MISSED YOU GUYS OKAY!? So, a bit of backstory for you kinky kittens. I got a chance to meet Cooper S. Beckett (Yes, the one from Life on the Swingset) at CatalystCon West 2014. I was lucky enough to be introduced courtesy of my AMAZING roommates, and so I was in complete and utter shock at the fact that not only did I get to meet the infamous Swingset crew, but I actually got to hang out with them, like a lot. Like these people decided that I was going to be a friend (orRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! It is holiday review time! I’m going to compile 4 reviews of 4 new (or new to me!) products that you might love! Welcome to day 4: the We-Vibe Tango Pleasure Mate Collection, the best gift for your best friend! I am posting early so you can scroll down to the end to enter my MASSIVE Holiday Giveaway! I heard about We-Vibe releasing a toy collection to go with their recently upgraded line of toys, and I was first in line. I got to hold the little beasties at Catalyst Con West andRead More →

This is to serve as both a conten warning and a warning about NSFW language and images.   Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. EDIT 9.7.17: I realize that in this context I forgot to note that I deeply and vehemently believe that race play is a problem, and the real world social ramifications it has are far-reaching. See this link for a pretty good sum up of my feelings on race play specifically. http://angryblackhoemo.com/2017/07/19/no-people-problem-race-play-not-kink-shaming/   There are some things about myself that make me profoundly uncomfortable. Things that I have taken a long time to come to terms with. You see, IRead More →

I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don’t like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and images. For the first part of this three part series, click here. For the second part of this three part series, click here. Guess what ladies!? Nothing you do is ever going to be good enough. You are damned if you do, and damned if you don’t. If you put motherhood ahead of your career, you’re setting back feminism by 50 years. If you focus on your career over motherhood, you’reRead More →

I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don’t like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language. Before I get started, I want to handle my review for the week. Check out Donotlink. It’s a sweet website that allows you to link to websites that are offensive or problematic without improving their search engine position! I’m a huge fan. There has been a lot of shit happening lately. Gamergate, the Snappening, the Fappening, and all sorts of violence against women, both in person and online. In fact, thereRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! Just a heads up for all you sexy people out there, this post is definitely NSFW. Sorry Mom and Dad! Natalie of Satin & Lace has been one of my very dear friends for a very long time and when I realized that I’d never had her take my picture,  I immediately begged her to take my business head shots. She was super incredible about not only taking my business shots, but also doing a boudoir shoot for me! I’ve long loved her boudoir shoots. They’re so bright and sexy and fun, and IRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews!   It has taken me far too long to get around to reviewing this book, and I am worse for it. I received an Advanced copy from Cleis Press to review around Valentine’s Day and simply never got to it. It was sitting, gathering dust on my desk until I brushed it off to flip through it a few days ago. I haven’t put it down. First things first, this book is amazing regardless of your relationship or sexual orientation. I found it to have a ton of information for couples.Read More →

First things first, I’d like to congratulate Myra T. for winning The Frisky Fairy Giveaway! Thank you all for entering! I’m hoping to do another giveaway soon! This past weekend I made the trek up to New York City to see one of my very best friends and also visit a few excellent sex-positive locations! Take a look at all the awesome things and places to go! First things first I headed to the Museum of Sex, with my best friend to take a peek at their awesome Funland exhibit! Unfortunately, their boob bounce was deflated and having some reconstructive surgery, so I couldn’t hopRead More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Hello friends! This week I’m discussing a topic that is incredibly close to my heart. This companion to my post So You Think You May Be Poly… has been requested from me multiple times for the friends and family of poly people, to explain the basics of polyamory. This is not a comprehensive guide. In fact, consider this a Part I. First things first, what is Polyamory? If you are hearing about this for the first time, the concept of poly may be bringing up images of religious men with many wives, or crazy sex partiesRead More →

  So thanks to all of you, I’ve reached 300 followers on Twitter! I’m really excited about this, so I’m giving away two awesome things to one lucky winner! I’m giving away a copy of Dr. Sonia Borgs Oral Sex You’ll Never Forget! I reviewed this book in February, and now I’m giving one away to you!   I’m also giving away one of the amazing überlube Good-To-Go Traveler pack! I reviewed überlube earlier in July and I am OBSESSED. I want you to obsess with me, so I’m going to share it with you!   Follow the instructions below! a Rafflecopter giveawayRead More →