Tag: relationships


It’s Not Your Responsibility


For a long time, people have joked that I'm a succubus. After all, when I have sex, when I get off, the world stops for me. I connect to the universe in a way that fills me with power. Power that rolls up my arms and into my soul. It's...

A Decade of Non-Monogamy: Part 2- Know When to Walk Away


I've been non-monogamous since I was 16. My 26th birthday was in July, which means I've been non-monogamous for a decade. That's freaking intense. a decade of non-monogamy has taught me some very important lessons. I could talk all day about the big lessons that everyone learns, but I would like to...

A Decade of Non-Monogamy: Part 1- The Art of Being Lonely


I've been non-monogamous since I was 16. Sure, I'd tried monogamy with boyfriends, but I almost always caused them terrible pain. In fact, for a long time, I told partners that they shouldn't date me because I would end up hurting them. I usually wasn't wrong. If someone who dated...

When “Sex First, Process Emotions Later” Fails You


People have told me my language is "inappropriate", I've tried to tone that down here. So please, let go of the pearls you're clutching. I am a slut. I have taken to reclaiming the word as a badge of honor rather than as an insult. I identify as a "Megasexual". This...

Don’t Stick Your Dick in Crazy


Hellooooooo my loves. I hope you've been well. I had a great time over my birthday, and I even had a birthday party that turned into an "adult swim" after the kids had gone to bed. I've had a few doctors appointments after that (remind me to write a post...

The Game Changer AKA I Hate Franklin Veaux


I hate Franklin Veaux. Now, now I know that people are going to bristle at that, but bear with me here. The co-author of More Than Two: A practical guide to ethical polyamory, a book I absolutely adored, (and highly recommend to those who are new to poly) is a jerk. You...
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