Hello lovelies! Today I want to talk about something really important to me.  This something that touches everyone, this reason that I do what I do, my passion in life: Sexual freedom. We live in a world where sexual freedom is not a given. It’s not a given to be at peace in your own body. It’s not a given to be able to love yourself. It’s not a given to be unashamed of who you are on the basis of your identities. This. Touches. Everyone. I’m not sure if I’ve ever mentioned it before, but ever since I was a kid I knew IRead More →

Yeah, yeah, yeah, I’ve been preetty quiet. I know y’all missed me so hard. Unfortunately, that random silence with slight bits of chattiness is going to continue at least until September (Possibly longer).  Please follow me on Facebook, Instagram, or on Twitter @TheFriskyFairy to get real life shots of what I’m up to. (And also my cat!) So I am a TOTAL SLUT for subscription boxes, and long have I bemoaned the lack of sex box full of body safe goodies. When Unbound poked at me about reviewing their box and I gave the site a look, I decided that maybe, just maybe it wasRead More →

As usual, I’m going to ask, nay, BEG my Parents, Family Members, Employer and Future Employers to please not read this post. If you read it, I’m not responsible for what you read, as it will constitute a serious overshare of my life. Thanks! PS- This post includes affiliate links <3 First things first, I want to thank all my readers for being super patient with me. I’ve been having some very, very heavy things happening here at home. While I want to share them with you, I need a bit more time to process them myself, but just know I haven’t forgotten you, andRead More →

This is a helllllla busy week for me. I am working my spiffy new day job, then on Wednesday I’m going to be in Baltimore for 4-Play! If you’re not coming, you’re missing out on so, so much. If you can’t be bothered to come see me in Baltimore (jerks), you can catch me at Catalyst Con, being a sexy, sexy cupcake. And let us not forget… THIS IS MY 100th POST! Thank you all so much for being a part of my little blog I love you all very much <3 Lube: the final frontier. These are the voyages of The Frisky Fairy. Her lifeRead More →

I have been so excited about this review for SO LONG, but first things first! The Fourth of July is happening in the states, which means fireworks, grilled food, and a shit ton of alcohol. That being said, please make sure you stay safe this July. Use condoms, wear seatbelts, and call a cab, a friend, or any other ride if you’ve been drinking.. If you’re firing off fireworks, check with your neighbors first to make sure none of them are combat veterans, or on the Autism spectrum. Please be safe and be kind, because I pretty much love you all. It is no bigRead More →

So before I get started in on my review today, I want to send a brief mention to Atlanta Poly Weekend. The weekend was such a wonderful experience in terms of meeting people, and I was so thrilled to have seen so many people in my panels! Thank you so much for having me as a presenter! If you haven’t gone to Atlanta Poly Weekend yet, they’re already planning for 2016, and I highly recommend that you go. It’s a wonderful space with wonderful people and a family friendly event. I especially want to thank the amazing Dr. Liz Powell for being such an awesome panel-mate. You can catchRead More →

You didn’t think I’d forget that May is Masturbation Month did you? I may be at Playa Del Fuego, but I still remembered. It is very rare for me that I come across a sex toy that I am confused about.  Usually I’m pretty good about identifying exactly what a sex toy is used for. I can identify by the shape and the design of the toy where it’s supposed to go. Usually they’re pretty self explanatory, and when I saw the Fuze Elle, I thought it was no exception. It was a clitoral toy, probably wearable, simple as that. Then I got it in my hands…Read More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews!   So in case you’ve not been paying attention I’ve been spending a whole lot of time this month with my Marshmallow in Savannah Georgia! We got to see the Saint Patrick’s day Parade, which evidently is a Big. FUCKING. Deal here in Savannah. It’s a little weird for me. Things were fun, everyone is super nice, but I also watched a bunch of people in lipstick randomly run up and kiss military members on the cheeks, which made me feel a bit uncomfortable in terms of the fact that bodiesRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! So in case you aren’t poly, and don’t flip your shit over new poly books, recently, a book called More Than Two released, and my poly friends would not shut up about it. I am always excited about new poly books, because frankly, we could really use more (any) representation in media. I knew, after listening to them that I would have to do whatever I could to reviewing this damn book. This. Damn. Perfect. Book. So I contacted Franklin (who I have had a writer’s crush on for years becauseRead More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments.   When I started this journey it was very hard for me to understand what I was worth. After all, there’s no real site that shares what Sex Educators make. It’s not like I can pop over to Glassdoor to type in my qualifications, and have it spit out how much I should charge someone to recommend the best sex toy, or to help them with their dating profiles. Many educators (myself included), prefer to be contacted for their rates, for a variety of reasons. For me, it’s mostly vanity in that the contact validatesRead More →