Tag: communication


It’s Not Your Responsibility


For a long time, people have joked that I'm a succubus. After all, when I have sex, when I get off, the world stops for me. I connect to the universe in a way that fills me with power. Power that rolls up my arms and into my soul. It's...

Consent, Community, and the Importance of Leadership


I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don't like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a content notice and a notice about NSFW language and images. Poly Living Philadelphia! This weekend (if you've been following me on Twitter), you may have noticed that...

Bad Poly, Part 4- It’s not about the sex…Except for when it is


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Welcome to the fourth and final segment of my four part discussion on Bad Poly. Today I'm going to talk about sex, a topic that needs no other introduction. Check the new language below! Sex-positive: Understanding that sex can potentially be a positive...

Bad Poly, Part 3 AKA How to Fucking Talk to Each Other


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Welcome to the third portion of my four part discussion on Bad Poly. Today I'm going to talk about communication. Why it's important, and why I am so deliciously, delightfully, disastrously bad at it. Check the new language below! Primary Partner: In...

Bad Poly, Part 2 AKA What the Fuck is Compersion?


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Welcome to the second portion of my four part discussion on Bad Poly. Today, we're going to talk about something which many people find to be one of the "stranger" parts of poly. The idea of compersion. As with before, let me...

The Only Sure Way to Have the Sex You Want Revealed!


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. I see a lot of posts promising that if you do this one trick, you'll have the best sex of your life. If you try this one position you'll have mind-blowing, passionate sex that will blow your mind. There really...

The Frisky Fairy Discusses: So You Think You May Be Poly…


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. I frequently get contacted by people who wonder whether they are polyamorous or not. They ask whether they could even give non-monogamy a shot. Unfortunately there is no real quiz you can take to find out if polyamory is right for you,...
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