Category: The Frisky Fairy Rants

Conversations on some of the harder topics. These may be more sensitive, or may be topics where I have a stronger opinion.


Can You Just Not? AKA Fat Female Bodies at the Gym


I moved to a new apartment in November, and the apartment has a fancy gym! It's not a huge thing, A couple of ellipticals, treadmills, a stair climber, and the weight machines with the cables. Those are where I spend most of my time (When I'm not doing squats that...

It’s Not Your Responsibility


For a long time, people have joked that I'm a succubus. After all, when I have sex, when I get off, the world stops for me. I connect to the universe in a way that fills me with power. Power that rolls up my arms and into my soul. It's...

My Cancer Pt. II, Medical Fat Shaming Could Have Killed Me


I have written about my cancer journey before. I've mentioned my care team, who make my life easier, and their credentials. I've written about how to interact with cancer patients. I've even spoken on the topic for a third time at Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit. I've tried to be kind and...

Your Willful Ignorance is Killing People


EDIT: I will no longer be replying to comments. Provided they are not death threats, rape threats, or threats against me or mine I will still approve them through. However, I have better things to do. Like my partners. Xoxo   You know... I've got a pretty solid soapbox here....

No, Seriously, Tell Me I’m Racist


Amid the coverage of the #baltimoreuprising, I had a really strange thing happen to me. I spent a lot of my time screaming at talking to white people when the news of the riots broke. Much of my conversation was spent defending the rioters, and their reaction to the consistent systemic...

Not Meat, Not Quite a Person: How Fetlife Failed Women Under 30


**UPDATE- 4/10 22:21 EST** I mentioned in this post that it was hacked, that was incorrect of me. The person who created the list simply exploited Fetlife's code to release information. This information (while not directly outing people) could be used to out people. If you're concerned, I strongly suggest removing all...

Consent, Community, and the Importance of Leadership


I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don't like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a content notice and a notice about NSFW language and images. Poly Living Philadelphia! This weekend (if you've been following me on Twitter), you may have noticed that...
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