The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! It is holiday review time! I’m going to compile 4 reviews of 4 new (or new to me!) products that you might love! Welcome to day 4: the We-Vibe Tango Pleasure Mate Collection, the best gift for your best friend! I am posting early so you can scroll down to the end to enter my MASSIVE Holiday Giveaway! I heard about We-Vibe releasing a toy collection to go with their recently upgraded line of toys, and I was first in line. I got to hold the little beasties at Catalyst Con West andRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! It is holiday review time! I’m going to compile 4 reviews of 4 new (or new to me!) products that you might love! Welcome to day 3: The Pocket Dungeon, for the sexplorer* in your life! *That was really bad. I’m sorry. Please forgive me for my punning.   If I could have one thing, It would be a small sized bag of holding that could easily store and organize all of my sex toys and not be super heavy. I currently use a super sweet toolbag with a billion pockets, and IRead More →

I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don’t like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and images. I was going to continue my holiday reviews, but I’m actually so pissed off that I’m skipping the review tonight y’all. I’ll save it for the new year. HARRUMPH. Remember how I spent THREE DAYS talking about what it’s like being a woman on the internet? No? Check here, here, and here. Go ahead, I’ll wait. Now that you’re caught up on how fucking tedious it is to existRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! It is holiday review time! I’m going to compile 4 reviews of 4 new (or new to me!) products that you might love! Welcome to day 2: Bandelettes, for the lingerie lover in your life! I have a confession to make. I am absolutely obsessed with lace. I love the way the right lace feels under my fingers. I adore the way my skin peeks through a black or a white lace. I find it to be super sexy on me and I feel like skin through lace is just so incredibly erotic.Read More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! So… Foria. We heard a lot about it here for a few weeks, and I had been chomping at the freaking bit to try this stuff. It’s no secret that I’m very pro-legalization of medical and recreational marijuana, and hearing about a THC lubricant made my heart all atwitter! I am serious, I was completely stoked to be able to try a sample of this awesome, awesome stuff. So once I received a sample, I got into the good stuff. Foria is basically two ingredients: coconut oil and THC oil. I’veRead More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Welcome to the second portion of my four part discussion on Bad Poly. Today, we’re going to talk about something which many people find to be one of the “stranger” parts of poly. The idea of compersion. As with before, let me lay down some terms for you! Compersion: Often considered the opposite of jealousy, compersion is the positive feelings that you experience when your partner is investing in a relationship with someone else. Metamour: Your partner’s partner. Envy: When you want what someone else has. Jealousy: When you’re worried someone is trying to take what you have.Read More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Welcome to my four part discussion on Bad Poly. Today, we’re going to talk about a really central theme to polyamory: Jealousy. Before we dig into this, let me lay down some definitions that we will be chatting about: Envy: When you want what someone else has. Jealousy: When you’re worried someone is trying to take what you have. NRE: New Relationship Energy- The excitement that exists when a relationship is new. Can last 3 months-2 years and beyond, and is individual to each relationship. There is a consistent theme when I am discussing polyamory around monogamous folk.Read More →

This is to serve as both a conten warning and a warning about NSFW language and images.   Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. EDIT 9.7.17: I realize that in this context I forgot to note that I deeply and vehemently believe that race play is a problem, and the real world social ramifications it has are far-reaching. See this link for a pretty good sum up of my feelings on race play specifically. http://angryblackhoemo.com/2017/07/19/no-people-problem-race-play-not-kink-shaming/   There are some things about myself that make me profoundly uncomfortable. Things that I have taken a long time to come to terms with. You see, IRead More →

I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don’t like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and images. For the first part of this three part series, click here. For the second part of this three part series, click here. Guess what ladies!? Nothing you do is ever going to be good enough. You are damned if you do, and damned if you don’t. If you put motherhood ahead of your career, you’re setting back feminism by 50 years. If you focus on your career over motherhood, you’reRead More →