Category: The Frisky Fairy Writes

Whether it’s a discussion, a rant, or a bit of erotica, you can find it here.


I Hate Asking for Help, but I Need Your Help


  For those of you who aren't in the know, I've spent a lot of time feeling less than because I don't have a degree. It's been frustrating and it's been overwhelming for me, mostly because I dislike feeling as though I can't do something even though I have experience...

My Cancer Pt. II, Medical Fat Shaming Could Have Killed Me


I have written about my cancer journey before. I've mentioned my care team, who make my life easier, and their credentials. I've written about how to interact with cancer patients. I've even spoken on the topic for a third time at Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit. I've tried to be kind and...

The Game Changer AKA I Hate Franklin Veaux


I hate Franklin Veaux. Now, now I know that people are going to bristle at that, but bear with me here. The co-author of More Than Two: A practical guide to ethical polyamory, a book I absolutely adored, (and highly recommend to those who are new to poly) is a jerk. You...

Ten Reasons Why Polyamory Sucks


Polyamory can be wonderful, but it can also suck so hard. If your partners are awesome, sometimes this can get sorted easily, but it can definitely be tedious. These are my top ten reasons why polyamory sucks. 1.) There is never a bed big enough for everyone, or a cuddle...

Your Willful Ignorance is Killing People


EDIT: I will no longer be replying to comments. Provided they are not death threats, rape threats, or threats against me or mine I will still approve them through. However, I have better things to do. Like my partners. Xoxo   You know... I've got a pretty solid soapbox here....

I’m Not Crunchy Granola Dammit!


  **A quick note: I will be out of town at Playa Del Fuego from May 21-May 27th (I'm taking a couple days of recovery time). If you can't reach me, that's why!** I'm a person who prefers a hotel room to a campground. I prefer swimming pools to murky...

No, Seriously, Tell Me I’m Racist


Amid the coverage of the #baltimoreuprising, I had a really strange thing happen to me. I spent a lot of my time screaming at talking to white people when the news of the riots broke. Much of my conversation was spent defending the rioters, and their reaction to the consistent systemic...
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