Today is a day of celebration. On January 22nd, 1973 the Supreme Court handed down a decision that would change the course of reproductive rights; access to safe abortions in the United States was legal thanks to Roe v. Wade. So today is a day of celebration for the millions of women who are alive, healthy, and able to live their lives the way they see fit without the damage of an unintended and sometimes unwanted pregnancy.  Today I am celebrating a few more things. I am celebrating the fact that I can continue on going to school without yet another interruption. I am celebratingRead More →

This post is going to be very long, and very heavy. It is going to cover some very intense material. I strongly encourage you to read through to the end. <3 Approximately 20-25% of homeless Americans have mental illness. Approximately 600,000 people are homeless (564708 on a specific night in January 2015). That means that an estimated 150,000 people are homeless and with a mental illness. The statistics on how many people are homeless because of their mental illness have not (at least that I could find) been measured, however mental illness was listed as one of the top three reasons for homelessness in 2008. If you haven’tRead More →

Been a while y’all. I know you’ve missed me and I miss you too. Things are finally slowing down here and I’ll be able to write soon. I wanted to share this video with you all, because it’s pretty much how I feel following the election results. Show it some love. The transcript is below, and the link to the organization list I mentioned is located here and at the bottom of the page.  Stay safe out there, and stay frisky. <3 Audio Transcript: “My fellow Americans. I’ve heard a lot of you who voted for trump or voted third party say that you’re notRead More →

Yeah, yeah, yeah, I’ve been preetty quiet. I know y’all missed me so hard. Unfortunately, that random silence with slight bits of chattiness is going to continue at least until September (Possibly longer).  Please follow me on Facebook, Instagram, or on Twitter @TheFriskyFairy to get real life shots of what I’m up to. (And also my cat!) So I am a TOTAL SLUT for subscription boxes, and long have I bemoaned the lack of sex box full of body safe goodies. When Unbound poked at me about reviewing their box and I gave the site a look, I decided that maybe, just maybe it wasRead More →

As usual, I’m going to ask, nay, BEG my Parents, Family Members, Employer and Future Employers to please not read this post. If you read it, I’m not responsible for what you read, as it will constitute a serious overshare of my life. Thanks! PS- This post includes affiliate links <3 First things first, I want to thank all my readers for being super patient with me. I’ve been having some very, very heavy things happening here at home. While I want to share them with you, I need a bit more time to process them myself, but just know I haven’t forgotten you, andRead More →

Dear Mom, Dad, Family Members, Employer, and Future Employers (But not my beloved readers because, seriously, you’re who I do this for <3) I strongly STRONGLY discourage you from reading this post. I really do. If you read it, I’m not responsible for what you’re reading. I gave you a magical warning that you’re going to hear WAAAAAY to much about my sexytimes (WHICH YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BECAUSE IT’S NOT LIKE I’M NOT OPEN ABOUT WHAT I DO… *ahem*). If you want to keep reading I can’t stop you, but here’s a cute .gif just in case you want to turn back now! IRead More →

Friskyfairy.com has been my go to for writing about my feelings, and that’s not going to stop anytime soon. It’s funny though, when writing posts, I find the writing to be cathartic. With this post I’m more concerned about the fallout in my circles. Still, thank you, my loving readers, for giving me a safe space to vomit my feelings without judgement or shame. I promise we’ll return to happy fun times soon! My most recent breakup has hit me harder than most. I’m not quite sure why. Maybe it’s the fact that I’m the most single I’ve been since I was 17. Maybe it’s theRead More →

Hello my loves! I’ve talked about Catalyst Con before, and you know how into it I am if I’ve been speaking at it for a while. This year I want you to come! Join me at the first Catalyst Con Midwest in sexy, sexy Chicago. Don’t worry, I’ll make it worth your trip 😉 Buy your ticket to Catalyst Con (and help me afford the trip!) by clicking here!Read More →

I moved to a new apartment in November, and the apartment has a fancy gym! It’s not a huge thing, A couple of ellipticals, treadmills, a stair climber, and the weight machines with the cables. Those are where I spend most of my time (When I’m not doing squats that is). Anyone who follows my social media accounts will have noticed my efforts at the gym.   The difference is staggering for me. I see it in my face, in my body. I see it in the way I move, and the way my body feels when I’m sitting on the floor. Working out has become myRead More →

So this past weekend I was at InfinityCon! For a con that had a few minor setbacks in the beginning (having to move the date) it was a lot of fun! PLUS I threw my first play party, and with a few snags (like me being EXHAUSTED) I feel like it went pretty damn smoothly. I strongly recommend signing up for the next one asap, because this poly con is only going to get bigger! I have never been a rope bunny. It’s not that I don’t *want* to be, it’s that I don’t know anyone who wants to tie up fat girls, and unfortunately,Read More →