Category: The Frisky Fairy Discusses

Conversations on some of my favorite topics!


The Frisky Fairy Rants: Beaches, Bikini’s, Blaming and Shaming


This is to serve as both a content notice and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. Every single year there is at least one blog post that goes viral that discusses the behaviors of young women during the warmer months. Most of the time those blogs discuss the ways that...

The Only Sure Way to Have the Sex You Want Revealed!


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. I see a lot of posts promising that if you do this one trick, you'll have the best sex of your life. If you try this one position you'll have mind-blowing, passionate sex that will blow your mind. There really...

The Frisky Fairy Writes: My Cancer, a Brief Story


I tend to write and talk about my experience with cancer and how it relates to relationships and sex. While I find this is an important thing to do, I also recognize that it's not really sex related. I'm writing this to put the story out here, so that it can...

The Frisky Fairy Discusses: So You Think You May Be Poly…


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. I frequently get contacted by people who wonder whether they are polyamorous or not. They ask whether they could even give non-monogamy a shot. Unfortunately there is no real quiz you can take to find out if polyamory is right for you,...

The Frisky Fairy Rants: We Are Failing


This is to serve as both a content warning and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. Before I begin anything that I am about to say, I want to express my most heartfelt condolences to the families of the victims of the Santa Barbara tragedy. This was a tragedy that should...

The Frisky Fairy Rants: Love and Fred Phelps


I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don't like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. The news of the death of Fred Phelps (leader of the church/hate group Westboro...

The Frisky Fairy Discusses: Sex Negativity vs Sex Positivity


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Today I want to talk about sex negativity, sex positivity and what it means for this blog. I would like to start by defining both of these terms: Sex Positive (As explained by Wikipedia): "an attitude towards human sexuality that regards all...

The Frisky Fairy Reviews: PPLM Sexuality Education Certification Series


The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! The first thing I noticed about the Planned Parenthood League of Massachusetts (PPLM)- Sexuality Education Certification Series (SECS) was how accessible the building was. You can access the building via public transit, though there is parking...

Welcome to the Frisky Fairy Blog!


Welcome to my blog! I am the Frisky Fairy, also known as Rebecca Hiles! I have been passionate about sex education for as long as I can remember. I have been working in the sex toy industry since 2009, and I hail from Pittsburgh originally. I am certified as a sex...
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