Category: The Frisky Fairy Discusses

Conversations on some of my favorite topics!


The Frisky Fairy Discusses: The Addictive Qualities of Self Harm


Trigger Warning: Graphic Descriptions of Self Harm I'd like to apologize in advance for harshing on your holiday groove because this is not a happy post. I debated for quite some time about even sharing this post, and I've looked at it a number of times and considered scrapping the...

Bad Poly, Part 2 AKA What the Fuck is Compersion?


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Welcome to the second portion of my four part discussion on Bad Poly. Today, we're going to talk about something which many people find to be one of the "stranger" parts of poly. The idea of compersion. As with before, let me...

Your Kink is Not PC…and that’s okay!


This is to serve as both a conten warning and a warning about NSFW language and images.   Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments.   There are some things about myself that make me profoundly uncomfortable. Things that I have taken a long time to come to...

The Frisky Fairy Discusses: The Support of Community


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Jon lost his job in August. My spouse, my love, my darling, lost his job in August. Of course, this sort of life change sent me into a panic, as it normally does. I've been digging up ways to get...

Mistakes, Apologies, and Loving Problematic Things


I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don't like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. What happens when you mess up? Is an apology enough? Can you make a mistake...

The Frisky Fairy Takes New York!


First things first, I'd like to congratulate Myra T. for winning The Frisky Fairy Giveaway! Thank you all for entering! I'm hoping to do another giveaway soon! This past weekend I made the trek up to New York City to see one of my very best friends and also visit...

So Someone You Love Is Poly…


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Hello friends! This week I'm discussing a topic that is incredibly close to my heart. This companion to my post So You Think You May Be Poly... has been requested from me multiple times for the friends and family of poly...

The Frisky Fairy Rants: Mental Illness and Robin Williams


I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don't like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. If you are having thoughts of suicide or self-harm, please, click here or contact the national...

Polyamory and STIs


I had been openly poly with my two partners Jon and Kai for almost three years when I met James* in September of 2012. He was handsome, funny, charming, and intelligent. Did I mention charming? I felt so incredibly lucky to have met such a handsome guy on my first...
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