Category: The Frisky Fairy Discusses

Conversations on some of my favorite topics!


My Children Will Not Be Ashamed: Musings on Sexual Freedom


Hello lovelies! Today I want to talk about something really important to me.  This something that touches everyone, this reason that I do what I do, my passion in life: Sexual freedom. We live in a world where sexual freedom is not a given. It's not a given to be...

44 Years of Celebration AKA That Time I Got An Abortion


Today is a day of celebration. On January 22nd, 1973 the Supreme Court handed down a decision that would change the course of reproductive rights; access to safe abortions in the United States was legal thanks to Roe v. Wade. So today is a day of celebration for the millions...

It’s Not Your Responsibility


For a long time, people have joked that I'm a succubus. After all, when I have sex, when I get off, the world stops for me. I connect to the universe in a way that fills me with power. Power that rolls up my arms and into my soul. It's...

A Decade of Non-Monogamy: Part 2- Know When to Walk Away


I've been non-monogamous since I was 16. My 26th birthday was in July, which means I've been non-monogamous for a decade. That's freaking intense. a decade of non-monogamy has taught me some very important lessons. I could talk all day about the big lessons that everyone learns, but I would like to...

A Decade of Non-Monogamy: Part 1- The Art of Being Lonely


I've been non-monogamous since I was 16. Sure, I'd tried monogamy with boyfriends, but I almost always caused them terrible pain. In fact, for a long time, I told partners that they shouldn't date me because I would end up hurting them. I usually wasn't wrong. If someone who dated...

When “Sex First, Process Emotions Later” Fails You


People have told me my language is "inappropriate", I've tried to tone that down here. So please, let go of the pearls you're clutching. I am a slut. I have taken to reclaiming the word as a badge of honor rather than as an insult. I identify as a "Megasexual". This...

Don’t Stick Your Dick in Crazy


Hellooooooo my loves. I hope you've been well. I had a great time over my birthday, and I even had a birthday party that turned into an "adult swim" after the kids had gone to bed. I've had a few doctors appointments after that (remind me to write a post...

My Cancer Pt. II, Medical Fat Shaming Could Have Killed Me


I have written about my cancer journey before. I've mentioned my care team, who make my life easier, and their credentials. I've written about how to interact with cancer patients. I've even spoken on the topic for a third time at Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit. I've tried to be kind and...

Bad Poly, Part 3 AKA How to Fucking Talk to Each Other


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Welcome to the third portion of my four part discussion on Bad Poly. Today I'm going to talk about communication. Why it's important, and why I am so deliciously, delightfully, disastrously bad at it. Check the new language below! Primary Partner: In...
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