I’m a slut. Slutty McSlutterson over here. I’ll sleep with just about anyone who piques my interest. Kidding (but not really). In reality, I identify as a megasexual. Dr. Liz Powell and I coined the term “Megasexual“ at our panel “Actually, it *is* About the Sex” during Atlanta Poly Weekend 2015. We defined Megasexual as: Megasexuals are characterized as individuals who lack emotional connection toward any person or persons unless they first form a strong sexual connection with someone. The level of sexual connection it takes for an emotional bond to form is often dependent on the initial attraction to the person. It is anRead More →

I’ve been non-monogamous since I was 16. Sure, I’d tried monogamy with boyfriends, but I almost always caused them terrible pain. In fact, for a long time, I told partners that they shouldn’t date me because I would end up hurting them. I usually wasn’t wrong. If someone who dated me is reading this now, I want you to know that I’m terribly sorry for any hurt I caused you as I was trying to find myself. My 26th birthday was in July, which means I’ve been non-monogamous for a decade. That’s freaking intense. That being said, a decade of non-monogamy has taught me some veryRead More →

So I’m not sure if you remember waaaaay back in February when I posted this picture? View this post on Instagram #behindthescenes of my video shoot with @atouchofflavor!! A post shared by Rebecca Hiles (@thefriskyfairy) on Feb 10, 2015 at 4:57am PST   Well I was lucky enough to shoot a video course for the wonderful Touch of Flavor! A Touch of Flavor is a great sex ed resource that brings videos and other events to life. They’ve been featured all over the media and are just a great group to work with! From their website: Everyone needs a Touch of Flavor in their lives. We’reRead More →