Lean in, my darlings, because I’m about to tell you a secret… You see, I’m afraid of other women. Not even necessarily women, but folks who have identified or lived as women for big parts of their lives. So I thought, if *I’M* afraid, surely other folks are too. And I brought the idea of this topic up to a bunch of amazing folks, only to hear the same thing: “I am bisexual, but I’ve never really (kissed/had sex with/dated/etc.) another woman, because I don’t know how to approach them.” Some of the reasons beyond “I don’t know how to approach them” included “They don’tRead More →

Today is a day of celebration. On January 22nd, 1973 the Supreme Court handed down a decision that would change the course of reproductive rights; access to safe abortions in the United States was legal thanks to Roe v. Wade. So today is a day of celebration for the millions of women who are alive, healthy, and able to live their lives the way they see fit without the damage of an unintended and sometimes unwanted pregnancy.  Today I am celebrating a few more things. I am celebrating the fact that I can continue on going to school without yet another interruption. I am celebratingRead More →

Hello darlings! This is NOT an April Fool’s post. Because I fucking HATE April Fool’s day, because I’m super gullible (I’m looking at you Fun Factory Orgasmia *heartbreak*). This post does have a giveaway, and a quick update about where I’m at! In case you missed it, I busted my butt at Catalyst Con East! I had such an amazing time, and I cannot wait until the next con! Check out a photo from my panel with the flawless Dirty Lola, the divine Andrea Renae, and the sensational Dylan Thomas. While I was out, I heard word that one of my FAVORITE sex toy companies (Crave) was releasingRead More →

What a year! I am so glad to have been here for all the amazing things that have happened this year! From speaking at Catalyst Con West (and now East!), to being ranked as one of the Kinkly.com Sex Blogging Superheroes, it has been a great year! Thank you so much for being a part of such a great year! I am so happy to have been around for this year, and I am so glad that you were here to be a part of it. I’ll be traveling and spending time with my family and loved ones, so follow me on Instagram and TwitterRead More →

Since my holidays start in November and last until mid-January, I figure I’ll give you my last minute shopping guide. If you’re anything like me, you either shop painfully early and then sit around desperately trying not to tell your people what you got them because you’re so excited about it… OR you wait until the absolute last fucking minute to shop. Either way, I’ve got you covered with some of my FAVORITE products of this year (and one from next year too)! For ease, I broke this list down into various price categories so you can spoil everyone you love, or show off yourRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! It is holiday review time! I’m going to compile 4 reviews of 4 new (or new to me!) products that you might love! Welcome to day 4: the We-Vibe Tango Pleasure Mate Collection, the best gift for your best friend! I am posting early so you can scroll down to the end to enter my MASSIVE Holiday Giveaway! I heard about We-Vibe releasing a toy collection to go with their recently upgraded line of toys, and I was first in line. I got to hold the little beasties at Catalyst Con West andRead More →

Autumn is my favorite season. The leaves look so pretty, and the weather is cool and comfy. I love the way things smell as it starts to be the holiday season, and I love how people are thinking more of how grateful the are for the people and things in their lives. This is, of course, not to say you shouldn’t be grateful all the time, but simply that in the time of holidays and traveling and presents and a whole holiday dedicated to being #thankful and #blessed, it’s this time of year that people really stop and reflect on the good things they haveRead More →

  So thanks to all of you, I’ve reached 300 followers on Twitter! I’m really excited about this, so I’m giving away two awesome things to one lucky winner! I’m giving away a copy of Dr. Sonia Borgs Oral Sex You’ll Never Forget! I reviewed this book in February, and now I’m giving one away to you!   I’m also giving away one of the amazing überlube Good-To-Go Traveler pack! I reviewed überlube earlier in July and I am OBSESSED. I want you to obsess with me, so I’m going to share it with you!   Follow the instructions below! a Rafflecopter giveawayRead More →