Rebecca Hiles

I am the Frisky Fairy, also known as Rebecca Hiles! I have been passionate about sex education for as long as I can remember. I have been working in the sex toy industry since 2009, and I hail from Pittsburgh originally. I am the Sexual Health and Wellness Education coordinator for Lotus Blooms in Alexandria, VA. I am certified as a sex educator through the Planned Parenthood of Massachusetts Sexuality Education Certification Series. I am a polyamorous cancer survivor, and I enjoy talking about my experiences. You can read some of my writing on xoJane.com. I started this blog because of my passion for sex and sex education. I work as a sex educator, teaching workshops on a variety of topics, but sometimes I really want to go in depth on a specific topic that I really enjoy. Thus, the Frisky Fairy blog was born! From reviews of my favorite toys, books, blogs, conferences, and more to discussions on my favorite sex and sex education topics, this will give you a look at what I base my workshops on! This is an education based blog after all and I hope that every time you leave, you feel like ’you've learned something new! I welcome feedback. If you enjoyed something, or disagree with something, please feel free to leave a comment! You can also email me at Contact@friskyfairy.com, or follow me on Twitter, Facebook, Google+, or my Tumblr! Please note that harassment, threats, intimidation, repeated annoying and unwanted contact or attention, and repeated personal attacks are not allowed. Please be polite!


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How to Have Sex When you Have Cancer


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Join me at Sexploratorium Thursday, July 24th at 7pm for Sex and Cancer! Get your tickets here! Cancer is a disease that affects millions of Americans, with more diagnosed cases each year. Approximately 54% of cases in the top ten cancers...

The Frisky Fairy Celebrates: 25 Years!


Happy Birthday to Me! I had a wonderful, super amazing birthday weekend, and a wonderful birthday yesterday! At the Baltimore Aquarium At my favorite Sushi and Hibachi place!   Today I'm giving myself the week off as a birthday present to me! Yay! -Until Next Time! TheFriskyFairy

The Frisky Fairy Reviews: Southern Butter


The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews!  So in the interest of keeping things balanced, I wanted to make sure that I included some other lubricant options for those who are allergic to silicone, use silicone toys, or simply don't like the feeling...

The Frisky Fairy Reviews: überlube


The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! I am so excited to review überlube for you! This lube is a silicone lubricant that is crafted in Chicago. I would say this is the closest to "artisanal" lubricant as one could get. When I spoke...

Hobby Lobby and Bullshit Science


This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. I was intending on writing a lovely post to extol the virtues of my new favorite lube, however, I came home from my vacation to this shit. This post is going to be about the SCOTUS...

The Frisky Fairy Rants: Beaches, Bikini’s, Blaming and Shaming


This is to serve as both a content notice and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. Every single year there is at least one blog post that goes viral that discusses the behaviors of young women during the warmer months. Most of the time those blogs discuss the ways that...

The Frisky Fairy Vacations!


Hey everyone! I'm on Vacation June 19-30 2014, which means no posts until July 1st! If you're curious, I'm going to be at an event through Dagorhir called Ragnarok Take a look at where I'm staying for a week! See You Soon! -The Frisky Fairy

The Only Sure Way to Have the Sex You Want Revealed!


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. I see a lot of posts promising that if you do this one trick, you'll have the best sex of your life. If you try this one position you'll have mind-blowing, passionate sex that will blow your mind. There really...

The Frisky Fairy Reviews: BeyondTwo.com


The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews!  I love dating websites. I cannot hide how much I love dating websites. I love to play on them, and see the new people who are looking for similar things. I like to see how they...

The Frisky Fairy Writes: My Cancer, a Brief Story


I tend to write and talk about my experience with cancer and how it relates to relationships and sex. While I find this is an important thing to do, I also recognize that it's not really sex related. I'm writing this to put the story out here, so that it can...
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