Rebecca Hiles

I am the Frisky Fairy, also known as Rebecca Hiles! I have been passionate about sex education for as long as I can remember. I have been working in the sex toy industry since 2009, and I hail from Pittsburgh originally. I am the Sexual Health and Wellness Education coordinator for Lotus Blooms in Alexandria, VA. I am certified as a sex educator through the Planned Parenthood of Massachusetts Sexuality Education Certification Series. I am a polyamorous cancer survivor, and I enjoy talking about my experiences. You can read some of my writing on xoJane.com. I started this blog because of my passion for sex and sex education. I work as a sex educator, teaching workshops on a variety of topics, but sometimes I really want to go in depth on a specific topic that I really enjoy. Thus, the Frisky Fairy blog was born! From reviews of my favorite toys, books, blogs, conferences, and more to discussions on my favorite sex and sex education topics, this will give you a look at what I base my workshops on! This is an education based blog after all and I hope that every time you leave, you feel like ’you've learned something new! I welcome feedback. If you enjoyed something, or disagree with something, please feel free to leave a comment! You can also email me at Contact@friskyfairy.com, or follow me on Twitter, Facebook, Google+, or my Tumblr! Please note that harassment, threats, intimidation, repeated annoying and unwanted contact or attention, and repeated personal attacks are not allowed. Please be polite!


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So Someone You Love Is Poly…


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Hello friends! This week I'm discussing a topic that is incredibly close to my heart. This companion to my post So You Think You May Be Poly... has been requested from me multiple times for the friends and family of poly...

The Frisky Fairy Rants: Mental Illness and Robin Williams


I will not tolerate abusive or harassing behavior on my site. My site, my rules. Don't like it? GTFO. This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. If you are having thoughts of suicide or self-harm, please, click here or contact the national...

The Frisky Fairy Giveaway!


  So thanks to all of you, I've reached 300 followers on Twitter! I'm really excited about this, so I'm giving away two awesome things to one lucky winner! I'm giving away a copy of Dr. Sonia Borgs Oral Sex You'll Never Forget! I reviewed this book in February, and...

The Frisky Fairy Reviews: The Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft


The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! I have had The Artisan's Book of Fetishcraft for so incredibly long, and I have been trying to find a way to review it best. So when I finally got my hands on some leather, I was...

Polyamory and STIs


I had been openly poly with my two partners Jon and Kai for almost three years when I met James* in September of 2012. He was handsome, funny, charming, and intelligent. Did I mention charming? I felt so incredibly lucky to have met such a handsome guy on my first...

How to Have Sex When you Have Cancer


Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Join me at Sexploratorium Thursday, July 24th at 7pm for Sex and Cancer! Get your tickets here! Cancer is a disease that affects millions of Americans, with more diagnosed cases each year. Approximately 54% of cases in the top ten cancers...

The Frisky Fairy Celebrates: 25 Years!


Happy Birthday to Me! I had a wonderful, super amazing birthday weekend, and a wonderful birthday yesterday! At the Baltimore Aquarium At my favorite Sushi and Hibachi place!   Today I'm giving myself the week off as a birthday present to me! Yay! -Until Next Time! TheFriskyFairy

The Frisky Fairy Reviews: Southern Butter


The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews!  So in the interest of keeping things balanced, I wanted to make sure that I included some other lubricant options for those who are allergic to silicone, use silicone toys, or simply don't like the feeling...

The Frisky Fairy Reviews: überlube


The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! I am so excited to review überlube for you! This lube is a silicone lubricant that is crafted in Chicago. I would say this is the closest to "artisanal" lubricant as one could get. When I spoke...

Hobby Lobby and Bullshit Science


This is to serve as both a trigger warning and a warning about NSFW language and/or images. I was intending on writing a lovely post to extol the virtues of my new favorite lube, however, I came home from my vacation to this shit. This post is going to be about the SCOTUS...
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