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So in case you’ve not been paying attention I’ve been spending a whole lot of time this month with my Marshmallow in Savannah Georgia! We got to see the Saint Patrick’s day Parade, which evidently is a Big. FUCKING. Deal here in Savannah. It’s a little weird for me. Things were fun, everyone is super nice, but I also watched a bunch of people in lipstick randomly run up and kiss military members on the cheeks, which made me feel a bit uncomfortable in terms of the fact that bodies are not public property, and as far as I could tell there was no request of physical contact beforehand. #feministkilljoy.
Beyond that, the drinks have been good, and the snuggles have been loving. Follow my Twitter and Instagram to keep an eye on my travels here, and see my Florida trip with Marshmallow this upcoming weekend! #fatkini!
That being said I have a LOT of things on my schedule coming up! You’ll find me all over the map, but check out where I’m going to be on my Speaking Schedule page!
I have been a big BIG fan of Spareparts overall, and I’ve always recommended the Spareparts Joque harness. And for good reason! The Spareparts lines are incredible in terms of body positivity and quality. They’re a bit on the pricey side, but they’re also pretty incredible and long lasting. Let us also not forget the fact that they’re MACHINE WASHABLE! I was lucky enough to have received a Spareparts Bella to review for you lovely folks and I have a lot to say.
I had a Spareparts Joque at my house that I had purchased ages ago. I’ve used it a few times but it never really sat well on me. It tended to dip lower and fall down my hips, even when it was super snug. What I love about it is that even though it tends to dip, it’s still reasonably stable. I was hoping that the Bella, because it has a bit more coverage would be more stable and more comfortable.
When I put the Bella on, I noticed three things. The first was that it was super comfortable, and felt very secure on my hips. That comfort is delightful and creates far more stability for me when I need to thrust. The second thing is that despite sizing the Bella properly, I ended up with one hell of a muffin top. It simply wasn’t as attractive as I wanted it to be. In fact, I don’t really find many of the Spareparts harnesses to be super attractive on me, which is a bummer. If the Bella had more of a high waist, it’d be perfect, but ah well. The third thing I noticed was that the ring for the dildo I was using sits slightly differently for me for the Bella Harness than the Joque. The Bella I felt sat a bit higher, and a bit more “natural” for me. The Joque sat very low and was a bit unwieldy. I do love that the crotch of the bella is wider and offers more coverage. I’ve always been bummed out about the joque, as I feel like it doesn’t have enough coverage over my labia and that’s bothered me.
The real winner here is the design of the Bella. A nice, thick waistband with stunning lace that wrapped around the hips. A smooth front makes it look feminine and elegant. I’m a huge fan of the removable garter straps! You do want to make sure that you measure properly and find the right fit. Spareparts harnesses go up to a 5x in many styles, but making sure you measure is super important. Under the ‘Size Chart‘ section on the page of your preferred harness, you’ll see the details on how measure yourself for the correct fit!
The back of the Bella is by far my favorite part. The pretty keyhole is enticing without being overt, and the bow on the back is super flirty and playful. I love the way it feels when someone runs their hands over the back of the harness and the lace of my hips. I will say that I absolutely adore the way the Joque harness makes my ass look (right), but the bella doesn’t do a bad job either!
Overall, I found that the Spareparts Bella harness is a beautiful, feminine piece and is wonderfully sexy. I wish I has requested to review the Sasha, as I feel the design may have taken care of the concerns I had regarding the fit. This goes up to a 5x and fits well-though a bit snug on first wear, even on 60″ hips.
I love this harness and I think you will too! The Spareparts Bella gets the Frisky Fairy seal of approval. Get frisky and get yours here!
Until Next Time!
-The Frisky Fairy