The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! I was so, So, SO excited to get a set of the BONDaids to review. I’ve seen them everywhere, they’re super luscious, and I was desperate for them. So I got them in the mail and received two things. The first was the BONDaids handcuffs, the second were the Double Cuff Restraints. I have to say, they are awesome. Super luscious, really luxurious, so soft. Looking at them it becomes the question of “how the hell do these work?”. The video for how the cuffs work is below. Attaching the BONDaids DoubleRead More →

Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. Welcome to my four part discussion on Bad Poly. Today, we’re going to talk about a really central theme to polyamory: Jealousy. Before we dig into this, let me lay down some definitions that we will be chatting about: Envy: When you want what someone else has. Jealousy: When you’re worried someone is trying to take what you have. NRE: New Relationship Energy- The excitement that exists when a relationship is new. Can last 3 months-2 years and beyond, and is individual to each relationship. There is a consistent theme when I am discussing polyamory around monogamous folk.Read More →

This is to serve as both a conten warning and a warning about NSFW language and images.   Please remember to be polite and respectful in the comments. EDIT 9.7.17: I realize that in this context I forgot to note that I deeply and vehemently believe that race play is a problem, and the real world social ramifications it has are far-reaching. See this link for a pretty good sum up of my feelings on race play specifically. http://angryblackhoemo.com/2017/07/19/no-people-problem-race-play-not-kink-shaming/   There are some things about myself that make me profoundly uncomfortable. Things that I have taken a long time to come to terms with. You see, IRead More →

The Frisky Fairy Reviews favorite toys, books, blogs, and other fun sex education reviews! NSFW images ahead…. you have been warned. So I had been very excited to try the Oral Sex Deck, partly because I love the idea of a deck of cards that can be use for trying new things, and partly because I wanted to make a collage from them… That being said, I really don’t find much use for them either way. That sounds harsh, I know but I found a couple really great things about them, and then a bunch of really not so great ones. Let’s start with the good!Read More →

Autumn is my favorite season. The leaves look so pretty, and the weather is cool and comfy. I love the way things smell as it starts to be the holiday season, and I love how people are thinking more of how grateful the are for the people and things in their lives. This is, of course, not to say you shouldn’t be grateful all the time, but simply that in the time of holidays and traveling and presents and a whole holiday dedicated to being #thankful and #blessed, it’s this time of year that people really stop and reflect on the good things they haveRead More →